Not good enough –

At the heart of most of our problems is feeling not good enough.

So, how do we know if we don’t feel good enough?

We are not comfortable with who we are.

We can’t relax. We have anxiety.

We have lots of negative self talk.
We are hard on ourselves.

We have high expectations.
We have too many self imposed rules…’shoulds’……’ought tos’.

Expectations click here

Rulesclick here

Shouldclick here

Control

Meaning / Story

Comparing

Expectations

In your head

Not good enough

Anxiety

Rules

Lack of acceptance

Should